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Cr\u00e9dit photo : Luizclas\/ Unsplash<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb tetor 2018, nisa t\u00eb jap kurse fr\u00ebngjishteje, si vullnetare, p\u00ebr disa t\u00eb mitur shqiptar\u00eb q\u00eb kishin mb\u00ebrritur n\u00eb Nancy vet\u00ebm, pa familjar\u00ebt e tyre. N\u00eb zhargonin profesional n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, ata njihen si si t\u00eb Mitur t\u00eb Pashoq\u00ebruar -Mineurs Non Accompagn\u00e9s- MNA.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb zbulim shqet\u00ebsues do t\u00eb niste at\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr mua, p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb thuajse nj\u00eb viti, zbulim q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhej p\u00ebrher\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb trondit\u00ebs ; e mb\u00ebrritur n\u00eb Franc\u00eb n\u00eb 2017, nga Shqip\u00ebria, bashk\u00eb me familjen time,i njihja tashm\u00eb shumicat e v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive t\u00eb t\u00eb huajve. Sidomos t\u00eb atyre q\u00eb vijn\u00eb nga vende t\u00eb varf\u00ebra ose n\u00eb zhvillim e sip\u00ebr. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nuk kisha pritshm\u00ebri t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb kur kap\u00ebrceva pragun e qendr\u00ebs ku ishin strehuar k\u00ebta djem t\u00eb mitur e ku do t\u00eb jepja m\u00ebsim. Por t\u00eb gjitha pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e mia u tejkaluan. N\u00eb kuptimin e keq t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs. N\u00ebn\u00eb e dy djemve t\u00eb mitur, vet\u00ebm disa vite m\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl se ata q\u00eb shihja p\u00ebrreth meje, merrini me mend t\u00eb gjitha sinjalet e \u00e7mendura q\u00eb l\u00ebshonte truri im kur kuptova q\u00eb mund t\u00eb hyja leht\u00ebsisht, t\u00eb ngjitesha n\u00ebp\u00ebr kate e t\u00eb futesha n\u00ebp\u00ebr dhoma, po t\u00eb doja, pa u kuptuar nga t\u00eb rriturit kujdestar\u00eb t\u00eb qendr\u00ebs : Pjesa ku ata qendronin ishte e ve\u00e7uar, e mbyllur me dyer, pa asnj\u00eb hapje ku mund t\u00eb v\u00ebzhgoheshin hyrje-daljet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00ebn\u00eb e dy djemve t\u00eb mitur, merrini me mend t\u00eb gjitha sinjalet e \u00e7mendura q\u00eb l\u00ebshonte truri im kur kuptova q\u00eb mund t\u00eb hyja leht\u00ebsisht, t\u00eb ngjitesha n\u00ebp\u00ebr kate e t\u00eb futesha n\u00ebp\u00ebr dhoma, po t\u00eb doja, pa u kuptuar nga t\u00eb rriturit kujdestar\u00eb t\u00eb qendr\u00ebs.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Kjo ishte nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr qendrimi t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohsh\u00ebm, pra ku banor\u00ebt mbaheshin derisa t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetohej q\u00eb ata ishin me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb mitur dhe jo t\u00eb rritur. Esht\u00eb nj\u00eb procedur\u00eb e gjat\u00eb, q\u00eb shpesh merr muaj t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb Franc\u00eb e gjat\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs ata nuk shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. N\u00eb dosierin q\u00eb pason k\u00ebt\u00eb editorial, shpjegohet holl\u00ebsisht ajo q\u00eb ndodh p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre muajve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Personazhi kryesor i historis\u00eb sime me k\u00ebt\u00eb qend\u00ebr, ai q\u00eb nuk mungoi kurr\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb or\u00eb m\u00ebsimi, A.nga nj\u00eb qytet i Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb Mesme, q\u00eb sapo kishte mbushur 15-vje\u00e7 e q\u00eb ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb zgjuar e t\u00eb sjellsh\u00ebm q\u00eb kam takuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, qendroi aty t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 6 muaj. Dhe kurr\u00eb nuk u njoh si f\u00ebmij\u00eb. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ai nuk mori kurr\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje\u2026T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebshtu m\u00eb tha p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb mesazhi telefonik, kur iku si emigrant s\u00ebrish, n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr, n\u00eb Itali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por do t\u00eb kthehem s\u00ebrish tek ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jo vet\u00ebm munges\u00eb sigurie, por edhe mobilje t\u00eb vjetra, shpesh t\u00eb thyera, shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndotura, n\u00eb korridorin e katit t\u00eb par\u00eb, n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ishte hyrja. Shumica e t\u00eb miturve ishin t\u00eb veshur keq, me rroba dhe k\u00ebpuc\u00eb t\u00eb vjetra. Dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, dukej q\u00eb ishin kaq t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjyer, kaq t\u00eb lodhur, t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur nga t\u00eb mosb\u00ebrit thuajse asgj\u00eb. Kishin pritur tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb, kuptohej. Kishin pritur q\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn t\u00eb shkonin n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Por, para se t\u00eb b\u00ebhej kjo, duhej q\u00eb gjykat\u00ebsi p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs t\u2019i njihte si f\u00ebmij\u00eb, nj\u00eb status q\u00eb e detyron shtetin francez, si \u00e7do shtet demokratik n\u00eb bot\u00eb, t\u2019u siguroj\u00eb shkollim e sh\u00ebrbime t\u00eb tjera. Por ja q\u00eb dosjet qendronin n\u00eb vendnum\u00ebro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebr A. ashtu si edhe p\u00ebr shum\u00eb t\u00eb mitur t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nga Shqiperia, Kosova e vende t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb Europ\u00ebs Juglindore (shumica e t\u00eb miturve t\u00eb qendr\u00ebs ishin nga vende afrikane), pritja b\u00ebhej gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb e padurueshme. Ai fliste mir\u00eb fr\u00ebngjisht dhe merrte vazhdimisht guximin t\u00eb pyeste punonj\u00ebsit e qendr\u00ebs n\u00eb lidhje me dosjen e tij. Shpesh, me besimin se un\u00eb, nj\u00eb e rritur, mund t\u00eb tregohesha m\u00eb k\u00ebrkuese, m\u00eb lutej t\u00eb pyesja un\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Gj\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebja, sigurisht. Ishte e kot\u00eb ; p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb shkurtra, t\u00eb prera ; Ata nuk kishin ende asnj\u00eb t\u00eb re. Derisa kjo t\u00eb ndodhte, duhej t\u00eb rrinte aty. Ose mund t\u00eb kthehej n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe udh\u00ebtimi do t\u2019i paguhej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb muajt q\u00eb do t\u00eb pasonin, nuk q\u00eblloi kurr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i jepja m\u00ebsim A.n\u00eb nj\u00eb sall\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb, me nj\u00eb tabel\u00eb, karrige e tavolina. P\u00ebr kompjuter nuk b\u00ebhej fjal\u00eb. Ose do t\u00eb sajonim nj\u00eb cep n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa hynin e dilnin t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ose n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb sall\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ku gjendeshin grumbuj rrobash e \u00e7ar\u00e7af\u00ebsh sjell\u00eb nga ndonj\u00eb fondacion. Ose thjesht do t\u00eb rrinim pa b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebsim sepse nuk arrinim t\u2019i gjenim as k\u00ebto cepa sallash. Me pak fjal\u00eb, nj\u00eb munges\u00eb e plot\u00eb organizimi q\u00eb i hiqte k\u00ebtij t\u00eb mituri, mendoj si shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve aty, d\u00ebshir\u00ebn dhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitonte nga shoq\u00ebria apo m\u00ebsimi me vullnetar\u00ebt, pjesa d\u00ebrrmuese francez\u00eb, q\u00eb ishin t\u00eb interesuar t\u2019u gjendeshin pran\u00eb k\u00ebtyre f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. E q\u00eb nuk ishin pak. Por, t\u00eb ndodhur para rr\u00ebmuj\u00ebs, pak nga pak largoheshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr ku mund t\u00eb jepnin m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Personazhi kryesor i historis\u00eb sime me k\u00ebt\u00eb qend\u00ebr, ai q\u00eb nuk mungoi kurr\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb or\u00eb m\u00ebsimi, A., q\u00eb sapo kishte mbushur 15-vje\u00e7 qendroi aty t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 6 muaj. Dhe kurr\u00eb nuk u njoh si f\u00ebmij\u00eb. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ai nuk mori kurr\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Cr\u00e9dit photo :<\/strong> <\/strong>Daan Stevens\/Unsplash<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk mund t\u00eb them se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb punonj\u00ebsit ishin indiferent\u00eb. E shihja qart\u00eb se kishte mes tyre plot q\u00eb ndiheshin keq e q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeshin t\u00eb b\u00ebnin sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb pun\u00ebn. Por edhe ata largoheshin p\u00ebrball\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj rr\u00ebmuje dhe hipokrizie. P\u00ebrgjat\u00eb 1 viti q\u00eb vazhdova t\u00eb shkoj n\u00eb qend\u00ebr, shpesh edhe si p\u00ebrkthyese, t\u00eb rrall\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb qen\u00eb punonj\u00ebsit social\u00eb q\u00eb i kam ndeshur m\u00eb shpesh se 3-4 her\u00eb\u2026Me siguri, pafuqia p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur misionin e tyre, u r\u00ebndonte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po pafuqia ime ? Sepse, edhe pse m\u00eb vjen turp ta pranoj, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta: isha nj\u00eb e rritur, gazetare p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, para nj\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsie, dhe nuk po kuptoja \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebja q\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoja ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb. Ishte e qart\u00eb se bisedat motivuese, interesimi i vazhduesh\u00ebm, m\u00ebsimi i fr\u00ebngjishtes, ishin shum\u00eb pak. At\u00ebher\u00eb, nisa t\u00eb g\u00ebrmoj t\u00eb dh\u00ebna e t\u00eb flas publikisht. N\u00eb mbledhjet me organizatat e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb civile, mes aktivist\u00ebve. Dhe kuptova q\u00eb nuk isha vet\u00ebm un\u00eb q\u00eb shihja ato q\u00eb shihja. Q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebhej fjal\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr. Q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebhej fjal\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr Nancyn. Qendrimi i mjegullt institucional ndaj k\u00ebtyre t\u00eb miturve n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, zvarritja e procedurave, kushtet e v\u00ebshtira t\u00eb banimit, mungesa e shkollimit dhe sh\u00ebrbimeve mjek\u00ebsore, raportohej t\u00eb ishte shqet\u00ebsues nga organizatat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb mbrotjes s\u00eb t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb njeriut. Dhe kuptova se sa i rreziksh\u00ebm, por edhe sa i mundur \u00ebsht\u00eb, pranimi si i mireqen\u00eb i miteve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sepse po, guxoj ta them : Q\u00eb t\u00eb miturit e huaj t\u00eb pashoq\u00ebruar priten mir\u00eb n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb mit. Ndoshta dikur ky pohim ka qen\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Ndoshta. Por sot, \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb mit. T\u00eb cilin un\u00eb vet\u00eb e kisha besuar shum\u00eb leht\u00eb, duke d\u00ebgjuar e lexuar ato q\u00eb publikohen n\u00eb mas\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ky dosier i kushtohet pik\u00ebrisht<\/a> sqarimit t\u00eb k\u00ebtij miti, me vet\u00ebdijen e qart\u00eb q\u00eb ai hedh drit\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl t\u00eb tij. Por mbi t\u00eb gjitha, i kushtohet A. nga Shqip\u00ebria e Mesme, nj\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebs i shk\u00eblqyer, q\u00eb pa mbushur ende 16 vjec u nis emigrant drejt nj\u00eb vendi tjet\u00ebr, Italis\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb studiuar seriozisht, pa sjell\u00eb varf\u00ebrimin e familjes s\u00eb tij. Vet\u00ebm n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri nuk e mendonte kthimin. \u00ab Ti e di si kan\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar shkollat publike tek ne, Elda. Madje edhe privatet. T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebtu, do t\u00eb b\u00ebj shkoll\u00eb tamam \u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb muajt q\u00eb do t\u00eb pasonin, nuk q\u00eblloi kurr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i jepja m\u00ebsim A.n\u00eb nj\u00eb sall\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb, me nj\u00eb tabel\u00eb, karrige e tavolina. P\u00ebr kompjuter nuk b\u00ebhej fjal\u00eb. Sajonim nj\u00eb cep n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb ose n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb sall\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ku gjendeshin grumbuj rrobash e \u00e7ar\u00e7af\u00ebsh. <\/strong><\/div>