{"id":1360,"date":"2022-12-21T09:11:32","date_gmt":"2022-12-21T08:11:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/?p=1360"},"modified":"2022-12-23T12:46:43","modified_gmt":"2022-12-23T11:46:43","slug":"edona-pour-51-euros-de-moins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/edona-per-51-euro-me-pak\/","title":{"rendered":"Edona: P\u00ebr 51 euro m\u00eb pak\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-91ba3eba uagb-blockquote__skin-quotation uagb-blockquote__align-left uagb-blockquote__style-style_2 uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><span class=\"uagb-blockquote__icon\"><svg width=\"20\" height=\"20\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\"><path d=\"M7.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.357-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086zM25.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.358-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content\"><em>Kam para meje nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb dhunuar, t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur, t\u00eb izoluar, t\u00eb mbizot\u00ebruar nga turpi dhe faji, e cila p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht nga fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb e mbajtura sekret nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Por, kur e pyes n\u00ebse \u00ebnd\u00ebrron t\u00eb punoj\u00eb, ajo p\u00ebrgjigjet e g\u00ebzuar \"Po, po, po!\"<\/em><\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted\">Shkruar n\u00eb fr\u00ebngjisht nga Anastasia Papadopoulos, studente,Universiteti i Shkencave Politike, Nancy. \nRedaktore dhe p\u00ebrkthyese n\u00eb shqip Elda Spaho Bleta \n<\/pre>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Anastasia-Papadopoulos.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1398\" width=\"237\" height=\"315\" srcset=\"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Anastasia-Papadopoulos.jpg 300w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Anastasia-Papadopoulos-226x300.jpg 226w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Anastasia-Papadopoulos-9x12.jpg 9w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 237px) 100vw, 237px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Autorja e artikullit, Anastasia Papadopoulos. Foto nga Ath\u00e9na\u00efs LACHAT. <strong>N\u00eb foton e m\u00ebsip\u00ebrme<\/strong>Edona, nj\u00eb emigrante shqiptare, rr\u00ebfen jet\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb Franc\u00eb. Foto  nga Anastasia PAPADOPOULOS<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">\u201cCovid-19 zbuloi fytyr\u00ebn e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb njeriut p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin hoqa dor\u00eb nga gjith\u00e7ka\u201d. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 56-vje\u00e7are, Edona<sup>1<\/sup> vendosi t\u00eb largohej nga vendlindja p\u00ebr t'u bashkuar me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, i cili jetonte dhe punonte legalisht n\u00eb Franc\u00eb prej vitesh. Vendimin, mbi te gjitha, e mori p\u00ebr t\u2019i siguruar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb normale familjare djalit te saj 13-vje\u00e7ar, me t\u00eb cilin u largua nga Shqip\u00ebria. Ishte viti 2017. \nPas nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebtimi t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, pa viz\u00eb por me shum\u00eb shpresa, ligjesimi nuk vjen. Per pasoje, ajo nuk mund t\u00eb punoj\u00eb n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, n\u00eb nje qytet te vog\u00ebl diku n\u00eb Grand Est, ku jeton me familjen.  \u201c\u00c7do fije floku n\u00eb kok\u00ebn time p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson sa her\u00eb jam penduar q\u00eb kam ardhur k\u00ebtu\u201d,- shton Edona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Burimi i pendimit t\u00eb saj? S\u00eb pari, sepse ka 5 vite n\u00eb Franc\u00eb dhe ende nuk eshte pajisur me dokumente, p\u00ebr shkak se i mungon nj\u00eb e ardhur mujore prej 51 eurosh.  S\u00eb dyti, sepse zbuloi nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort dhunues ...<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim sfidues<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00eb vitin 2006 Edona martohet me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb nga Kosova, i cili prej disa vitesh punon si zejtar n\u00eb Franc\u00eb. Ajo ishte 45 vje\u00e7e. Pas martes\u00ebs, vendos t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Burri i saj niset p\u00ebr n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, si gjithmon\u00eb. Por, p\u00ebr Edon\u00ebn, nisja \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb: ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shqiptare, ndaj i duhet viz\u00eb. Bashk\u00ebshorti fillon nj\u00eb procedur\u00eb bashkimi familjar, por k\u00ebrkesa kund\u00ebrshtohet n\u00eb vitin 2009, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjes s\u00eb mjaftueshme financiare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">N\u00eb vitin 2007, nj\u00eb vit pas martese, ata vendosin t\u00eb bir\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, thuajse foshnje, nipin e tij 2-vje\u00e7ar. N\u00ebna i kishte vdekur s\u00eb fundmi dhe babai nuk ishte n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb rriste. \"Isha un\u00eb q\u00eb propozova ta bir\u00ebsoja dhe ta edukoja. Kur e pash\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb at\u00eb gjendje, m\u2019u thye zemra. D\u00ebshiroja t'i jepja nj\u00eb familje,\" tregon Edona. Ky bir\u00ebsim nuk solli ndonj\u00eb ndryhsim t\u00eb madh n\u00eb jet\u00ebn bashk\u00ebshortore: burri i saj vizitonte Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb vit, p\u00ebr disa jav\u00eb, para se t\u00eb kthehej n\u00eb Franc\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar. Edona rriste e vetme djalin. Edhe pse gjendja  e saj ishte larg t\u00eb qenurit ideale, ajo nuk pranon t\u00eb varet nga t\u00eb ardhurat e burrit. Nuk mund ta pranoj\u00eb var\u00ebsin\u00eb ekonomike;  \u00ebnd\u00ebrron emancipimin dhe nuk ngurron t\u00eb shes\u00eb fruta e perime n\u00eb rrug\u00eb. \u201cKam punuar gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe kam qen\u00eb e mir\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebja\u201d, kujton Edona me krenari k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. \"Jam gati t\u00eb filloj nga e para. Madje, mezi pres.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Megjithat\u00eb, pas shum\u00eb vitesh duke u rritur vet\u00ebm me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij, djali i vog\u00ebl fillon t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb \"babushin\". Vizitat vjetore t\u00eb babait jan\u00eb t\u00eb pamjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb. P\u00ebrvec k\u00ebsaj, ai fillon t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe ndihet i turp\u00ebruar nga thashethemet p\u00ebr familjen... Edhe n\u00ebna e tij vuan jo m\u00eb pak. \"Pse nuk bashkohesh me burrin e me djalin n\u00eb Franc\u00eb?\", pyesin njer\u00ebzit vazhdimisht. E shtyr\u00eb nga i biri, nga opinioni publik dhe e lodhur nga pritja e pafundme, Edona  vendos t\u00eb hyj\u00eb e t\u00eb qendroj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb parregullt n\u00eb Franc\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 2017, bashk\u00eb me t\u00eb birin. Me shpresa jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr miratimin e k\u00ebrkes\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre p\u00ebr bashkim familjar. Refuzuar tashm\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 2009. \"P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, Franca nuk m\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqte. Procesi i rregullimit \u00ebsht\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb vendim e mora m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr djalin sesa p\u00ebr veten time\", - tregon ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>P\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 51 euro m\u00eb shum\u00eb...<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Procedura e bashkimit familjar n\u00eb Franc\u00eb kryhet sipas kritereve strikte. Sipas faqes s\u00eb internetit t\u00eb Ministris\u00eb s\u00eb Brendshme, nj\u00eb familje me dy ose tre persona, duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb pasur t\u00eb ardhura minimale mujore n\u00eb nivelin e nj\u00eb rroge minimale, (1,302,64 \u20ac), gjat\u00eb 12 muajve para aplikimit<sup>2<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">K\u00ebrkesa e bashk\u00ebshortit t\u00eb Edon\u00ebs ndesh n\u00eb refuzim prej vitesh, p\u00ebr arsye financiare. Me dosjen e tij n\u00eb dor\u00eb, ku gjenden t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebrkesat dhe vendimet zyrtare t\u00eb marra nd\u00ebr vite, lexoj q\u00eb  t\u00eb ardhurat e tij ishin 1,251,33 \u20ac n\u00eb muaj, duke rezultuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb pamjaftueshm\u00ebri financiare prej 51,31 \u20ac p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur kriteret p\u00ebr bashkim familjar. Me pak fjal\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht se djali i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb regjistruar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb n\u00eb Franc\u00eb q\u00eb nga viti 2017 dhe bashk\u00ebshorti ka leje q\u00ebndrimi, Edona dhe f\u00ebmija i saj mbeten t\u00eb paligjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb mungese prej 51 eurosh n\u00eb muaj. P\u00ebr ironi, ajo nuk mund t\u00eb kontribuoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kompensuar k\u00ebt\u00eb munges\u00eb financiare, sepse askush nuk mund ta pun\u00ebsoj\u00eb  n\u00ebse nuk ka dokumente<sup>3<\/sup>. I famshmi rreth vicioz n\u00eb Franc\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Edona n\u2019est pas la seule \u00e0 faire une demande de visa ; en effet, selon les donn\u00e9es du minist\u00e8re de l\u2019Int\u00e9rieur, c\u2019est plus de 4 millions de demandes de visas qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 enregistr\u00e9es en 2018. Malheureusement, elle fait partie des 674 789 visas refus\u00e9s cette m\u00eame ann\u00e9e, gardant toujours l&#8217;espoir de faire partie un jour des chiffres des visas finalement d\u00e9livr\u00e9s en France<a href=\"#_ftn3\" id=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignleft size-full is-resized has-custom-border\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Dorina-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1460\" style=\"border-width:1px;border-radius:4px\" width=\"236\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Dorina-1.jpg 450w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Dorina-1-5x12.jpg 5w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption translation-block\">Edona, nj\u00eb emigrante shqiptare, rr\u00ebfen jet\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb Franc\u00eb. Foto  nga Anastasia PAPADOPOULOS<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dhun\u00eb dhe rebelim<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kur kriza Covid 19 godet Evrop\u00ebn dhe ndodh bllokimi mbar\u00ebbot\u00ebror, n\u00eb 2020, Edona zbulon karakterin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit. Ishte hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb ata kalonin kaq shum\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00ebn t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn \u00e7ati, s\u00eb bashku. Deri n\u00eb at\u00eb moment, ai rrinte m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti jasht\u00eb dhe vinte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur. Por tani, ishte i detyruar t\u00eb q\u00ebndronte brenda. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, ata nuk kishin shum\u00eb para.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">\u201cU b\u00eb edhe m\u00eb i p\u00ebrpikt\u00eb se zakonisht\u201d, - kujton ajo. \u2013 \u201cUn\u00eb as q\u00eb duhej t'ia prekja gj\u00ebrat. Kur ishim n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb, p\u00ebr shembull, ai donte t'i vendoste er\u00ebzat n\u00eb vendin m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Kur i l\u00ebvizja, qoft\u00eb edhe disa centimetra, ai e kuptonte dhe fillonte t\u00eb m\u00eb godiste.\u201d Burri nuk kishte qen\u00eb kurr\u00eb i dhunsh\u00ebm ndaj saj p\u00ebrpara se ajo t\u00eb shkonte n\u00eb Franc\u00eb. Por tani, ai e justifikonte k\u00ebt\u00eb abuzim duke e faj\u00ebsuar q\u00eb nuk punon. Kjo dhimbje e b\u00ebn Edon\u00ebn t\u00eb pendohet edhe m\u00eb m\u00eb thell\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga vendi i saj, Shqip\u00ebria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">\u201cNuk m\u00eb ke k\u00ebrkuar kurr\u00eb falje! Duhet t\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh falje\u201d, i thot\u00eb Edona, nd\u00ebrsa gjendet vetem, p\u00ebrball\u00eb meje. Kur, tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr von\u00eb. \u201cNuk kam qar\u00eb kurr\u00eb para burrit tim\u201d, pranon ajo, pavar\u00ebsisht se i vjen zor. Syt\u00eb nuk g\u00ebnjejn\u00eb dhe i zbulojn\u00eb trishtimin, keqardhjen dhe dyshimet. Edhe pse kjo emigrante shqiptare duket e g\u00ebzuar dhe optimiste, syt\u00eb e saj jan\u00eb mbushur me nostalgji e trishtim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Burimi i vet\u00ebm i mbushjes me pak aj\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb ecja, vet\u00ebm, jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Gjendja brenda \u00ebsht\u00eb e tensionuar. N\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, ajo qan n\u00eb heshtje n\u00eb krah\u00ebt e djalit t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Vet\u00ebm kur burri ngre dor\u00ebn ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, Edona gjen forc\u00ebn dhe guximin p\u00ebr t'iu p\u00ebrgjigjur dhun\u00ebs. Ajo pranon t\u00eb telefonoj\u00eb policin\u00eb, dhe, bashk\u00eb me djalin gjejn\u00eb strehim n\u00eb nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr grash t\u00eb dhunuara. Por, para sh\u00ebndetit t\u00eb brisht\u00eb t\u00eb djalit, i cili humbi shum\u00eb pesh\u00eb n\u00eb vet\u00ebm tre jav\u00eb, ajo vendos t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Q\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb, burri nuk e ka rrahur. Ishte hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb Edona guxonte t\u00eb ngrihej n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb dhe t\u00eb thoshte \"jo\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Dhuna n\u00eb familje, sipas sociologut francez Daniel Welzer-Lang, \u00ebsht\u00eb \"p\u00ebrdorimi i pushtetit paralizues dhe shkat\u00ebrrues me an\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb cilit nj\u00eb person i imponon nj\u00eb tjetri pik\u00ebpamjen e tij t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, duke e detyruar at\u00eb t\u00eb heq\u00eb dor\u00eb nga t\u00eb gjitha idet\u00eb dhe d\u00ebshirat q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim me t\u00eb tijat, dhe duke e penguar q\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb vetvetja\". Dhuna n\u00eb familje, sipas tij, dallohet nga p\u00ebrdorimi i forc\u00ebs dhe k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimit brenda nj\u00ebsis\u00eb familjare dhe mbrohet nga ndjenja e turpit dhe e fajit q\u00eb ndjen viktima. Dhuna n\u00eb familje mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb shum\u00eb forma, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb at\u00eb verbale, psikologjike, fizike, ekonomike dhe seksuale<sup>4<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kjo dhun\u00eb fizike, verbale dhe ekonomike, \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb p\u00ebr Edon\u00ebn; Gjendja e saj si emigrante e paligjshme n\u00eb Franc\u00eb e b\u00ebn edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb viktimizuar ndaj bashk\u00ebshortit, i cili e trajton si objekt. Pa mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar dhe p\u00ebr rrjedhoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar t\u00eb ardhura p\u00ebr vete, bashk\u00ebshorti \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb kontroll t\u00eb plot\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Edhe pse nuk e rreh m\u00eb, Edona mbetet e bllokuar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe lufton p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dhun\u00ebn e r\u00ebnd\u00eb psikologjike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Shum\u00eb gra n\u00eb Franc\u00eb gjenden n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gjendje; sipas sondazhit t\u00eb Cadre de Vie et S\u00e9curit\u00e9 (CVS), 102 gra vdiq\u00ebn n\u00eb vitin 2020 p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb goditjeve t\u00eb partnerit ose ish-partnerit t\u00eb tyre. 35% e tyre kishin qen\u00eb nd\u00ebrkaq m\u00eb par\u00eb viktima t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs nga partner\u00ebt e meparshem. Pandemia e Covid-19 p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsoi fenomenin: sipas anket\u00ebs, 159,400 gra kan\u00eb qen\u00eb viktima t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs s\u00eb ushtruar nga partneri i tyre n\u00eb 2020, n\u00eb Franc\u00eb. Plot 10% m\u00eb shum\u00eb se n\u00eb vitin 2019<sup>5<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, sipas t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave nga linja telefonike anonime komb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr grat\u00eb viktima t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs, 3919, sh\u00ebrbimi ka marr\u00eb 53,264 telefonata p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn ndaj grave n\u00eb vitin 2020, nj\u00eb rritje prej 19% krahasuar me vitin 2019. 95% e k\u00ebtyre telefonatave citojn\u00eb, si arsye, dhun\u00ebn sht\u00ebpiake, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunimin nga ana e partnerit<sup>6<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\"><strong>Po m\u00eb pas? <\/strong>Djali i saj tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb 17 vje\u00e7. Edona pret prej 5 vjet\u00ebsh nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje pozitive zyrtare q\u00eb mund ta ligj\u00ebsoj\u00eb  n\u00eb Franc\u00eb. Ajo b\u00ebn rregullisht kurse t\u00eb gjuh\u00ebs franceze tek Secours Catholique Hauts de Lorraine, gj\u00eb q\u00eb e ndihmon t\u00eb integrohet dhe t\u00eb takoj\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rinj. Edona pranon se asgj\u00eb nuk e shtyn m\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet e t\u00eb qendroj\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, pavar\u00ebsisht keqardhjes s\u00eb thell\u00eb mbi  ikjen nga vendlindja, nga familja. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, mund\u00ebsia e presionit nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, e frik\u00ebson  s\u00eb tep\u00ebrmi. Ajo nuk mund t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri nd\u00ebrsa ende nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb pajisur me dokumente. Kam para meje nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb dhunuar, t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur, t\u00eb izoluar, te mbizot\u00ebruar nga turpi dhe faji, e cila p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht nga fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb e mbajtura sekret nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Por, kur e pyes n\u00ebse \u00ebnd\u00ebrron t\u00eb punoj\u00eb, ajo p\u00ebrgjigjet e g\u00ebzuar \"Po, po, po!\"<sup>7<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Burimet<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" id=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> *Emri \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur identitetin e personit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" id=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Minist\u00e8re de l\u2019Int\u00e9rieur, <em>Regroupement familial<\/em>&nbsp;: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.demarches.interieur.gouv.fr\/particuliers\/regroupement-familial#:~:text=L'%C3%A9poux(se)%20ou,mineurs%20(moins%20de%2018%20ans)\">https:\/\/www.demarches.interieur.gouv.fr\/particuliers\/regroupement-familial#:~:text=L&#8217;%C3%A9poux(se)%20ou,mineurs%20(moins%20de%2018%20ans)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" id=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Minist\u00e8re de l\u2019Int\u00e9rieur et des outre-mer, <em>Direction g\u00e9n\u00e9rale des \u00e9trangers en France<\/em>&nbsp;:<a href=\"https:\/\/www.immigration.interieur.gouv.fr\/La-Direction-generale\/Presentation#:~:text=Cr%C3%A9%C3%A9e%20en%202013%2C%20la%20direction,acc%C3%A8s%20%C3%A0%20la%20nationalit%C3%A9%20fran%C3%A7aise.\">Pr\u00e9sentation \/ La Direction g\u00e9n\u00e9rale &#8211; Direction g\u00e9n\u00e9rale des \u00e9trangers en France &#8211; Minist\u00e8re de l&#8217;Int\u00e9rieur (interieur.gouv.fr)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" id=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> MANSEUR Zahia, <em>Entre projet de d\u00e9part et soumission : la souffrance de la femme battue<\/em>, 2004&nbsp;: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cairn.info\/revue-pensee-plurielle-2004-2-page-103.htm\">Entre projet de d\u00e9part et soumission&nbsp;: la souffrance de la femme battue | Cairn.info<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" id=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> Minist\u00e8re de l\u2019Int\u00e9rieur et des outre-mer, <em>Les violences conjugales enregistr\u00e9es par les services de s\u00e9curit\u00e9 en 2020<\/em>&nbsp;: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.interieur.gouv.fr\/actualites\/communiques\/violences-conjugales-enregistrees-par-services-de-securite-en-2020\">Les violences conjugales enregistr\u00e9es par les services de s\u00e9curit\u00e9 en 2020 | Minist\u00e8re de l&#8217;Int\u00e9rieur (interieur.gouv.fr)<\/a><em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a id=\"_ftn6\" href=\"#_ftnref6\"><\/a>&nbsp;<a id=\"_ftn5\" href=\"#_ftnref5\">[6]<\/a> Solidarit\u00e9 Femmes<em>, 3919<\/em>&nbsp;: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.solidaritefemmes.org\/actualites\/appels-au-3919-en-2020-22#:~:text=En%202020%2C%20la%20F%C3%A9d%C3%A9ration%20Nationale,compar%C3%A9%20%C3%A0%202019.\">F\u00e9d\u00e9ration Nationale Solidarit\u00e9 Femmes | Appels au 3919 en 2020 : \u2026 (solidaritefemmes.org)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref7\" id=\"_ftn7\"><\/a><em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-9f0178ef uagb-blockquote__skin-quotation uagb-blockquote__align-left uagb-blockquote__style-style_2 uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><span class=\"uagb-blockquote__icon\"><svg width=\"20\" height=\"20\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\"><path d=\"M7.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.357-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086zM25.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.358-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content\"><a id=\"_ftn5\" href=\"#_ftnref5\">[7]<\/a> <em>Ky artikull u shkrua n\u00eb qershor-shtator 2022. Gjat\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimit t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj pune, n\u00eb shtator 2022, Edona mori m\u00eb n\u00eb fund lejen e par\u00eb t\u00eb qendrimit nga ana e prefektur\u00ebs.<\/em><\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-16a7991d uagb-blockquote__skin-border uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content translation-block\">*Ky artikull \u00ebsht\u00eb prodhuar si pjes\u00eb e projektit \"T\u00eb vijm\u00eb s\u00eb bashku, t\u00eb rr\u00ebfehemi, t\u00eb mobilizohemi\", nj\u00eb partneritet midis platform\u00ebs s\u00eb informacionit PRO IDE dhe Secours Catholique Caritas Hauts de Lorraine, me mb\u00ebshtetjen financiare t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj t\u00eb fundit.\nAi u shkrua nga Anastasia Papadopoulos, studente n\u00eb universitetin e Shkencave Politike n\u00eb Paris, kampusi i Nancy-t, vullnetare (2022) me Secours Catholique Caritas Hauts de Lorraine, dhe u redaktua nga Elda Spaho Bleta, gazetare, themeluese e PRO IDE. 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N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 56-vje\u00e7are, Edona1 vendosi t\u00eb largohej nga vendlindja p\u00ebr t'u bashkuar me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, i cili jetonte dhe punonte legalisht n\u00eb Franc\u00eb prej vitesh. Vendimin, mbi te gjitha, e mori p\u00ebr t\u2019i siguruar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb normale familjare djalit te saj 13-vje\u00e7ar, me t\u00eb cilin u largua nga Shqip\u00ebria. Ishte viti 2017. \nPas nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebtimi t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, pa viz\u00eb por me shum\u00eb shpresa, ligjesimi nuk vjen. 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