{"id":1318,"date":"2022-12-20T21:27:11","date_gmt":"2022-12-20T20:27:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/?p=1318"},"modified":"2022-12-23T12:20:22","modified_gmt":"2022-12-23T11:20:22","slug":"cest-comme-ca-quon-devient-exilee-a-cause-de-la-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/keshtu-behesh-emigrante-per-shkak-te-dhunes\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cK\u00ebshtu b\u00ebhesh emigrante p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Lauteur-de-larticle-Dora-Pozsgai-Photo-credit-Athenais-LACHAT-ok.jpg\" alt=\"Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Lauteur-de-larticle-Dora-Pozsgai-Photo-credit-Athenais-LACHAT\" class=\"wp-image-1321\" width=\"140\" height=\"210\" srcset=\"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Lauteur-de-larticle-Dora-Pozsgai-Photo-credit-Athenais-LACHAT-ok.jpg 200w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Lauteur-de-larticle-Dora-Pozsgai-Photo-credit-Athenais-LACHAT-ok-8x12.jpg 8w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 140px) 100vw, 140px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">L&#8217;auteur de l&#8217;article <br>Dora Pozsgai <br>Photo credit Ath\u00e9na\u00efs LACHAT <strong>N\u00eb foton e m\u00ebsip\u00ebrme<\/strong>: Dorina racontant son experience Photo credit Anastasia Papadopoulos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-7494b785 uagb-blockquote__skin-quotation uagb-blockquote__align-left uagb-blockquote__style-style_2 uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><span class=\"uagb-blockquote__icon\"><svg width=\"20\" height=\"20\" viewbox=\"0 0 32 32\"><path d=\"M7.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.357-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086zM25.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.358-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content translation-block\">Dorina kaloi 8 vite n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, pa t\u00eb shoqin, duke jetuar me prind\u00ebrit e tij. Ajo punonte 12 or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa kujdesej edhe p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e p\u00ebr vjehrrin e s\u00ebmur\u00eb. E gjitha kjo pa nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb falenderimi, n\u00ebn dhun\u00eb  psikologjike, ekonomike dhe fizike. Nj\u00eb histori njer\u00ebzore.<\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-preformatted has-small-font-size\">Shkruar n\u00eb fr\u00ebngjisht nga Dora Poszgai, studente,Universiteti i Shkencave Politike, Nancy. \nRedaktore dhe p\u00ebrkthyese n\u00eb shqip Elda Spaho Bleta<\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">\u201cShum\u00eb njer\u00ebz pyesin, - thot\u00eb Dorina<sup>*<\/sup>, - pse u largova nga vendi im, pse erdha k\u00ebtu, n\u00eb Franc\u00eb?\u201d. Po, historia e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb e nd\u00ebrlikuar. Hapi i par\u00eb p\u00ebr ta kuptuar \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb pranosh se shumica e emigrant\u00ebve nuk largohen nga vendi i tyre me d\u00ebshir\u00eb e vullnet t\u00eb lir\u00eb. Ata ikin nga di\u00e7ka: lufta, p\u00ebrplasjet politike, varf\u00ebria, padyshim - por edhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb vetjake. Kan\u00eb nj\u00eb arsye t\u00eb fort\u00eb p\u00ebr t'u larguar, p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb familjen pas dhe sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Nj\u00eb martes\u00eb plot dhun\u00eb <\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Kat\u00ebr vite m\u00eb par\u00eb, Dorina, n\u00ebn\u00eb e dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, u iku frik\u00ebs dhe dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe u nis drejt Franc\u00ebs, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur si\u00e7 duhet f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj. Edhe pse n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e modernizimit, shoq\u00ebria patriarkale ballkanike mbetet e rr\u00ebnjosur fort n\u00eb traditat dhe zakonet q\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktojn\u00eb struktur\u00ebn hierarkike shoq\u00ebrore dhe familjare. Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb ende n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb burrave.\nDorina u martua n\u00eb vitin 2000 dhe lindi dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 2002 dhe 2007. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb bashk\u00eb, me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe bashk\u00ebshortin, jetonin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb moshuar t\u00eb k\u00ebtij t\u00eb fundit, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb kujdesej p\u00ebr ta. Vijuan vite t\u00eb gjata dhune dhe n\u00ebnshtrimi, jo vet\u00ebm ndaj bashk\u00ebshortit, por edhe ndaj prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">-Nj\u00eb here, thjesht harrova t\u00eb mbyll dritaren dhe vjehrri m\u00eb goditi me patericat e tij, - tregon ajo. -Dhuna e tij ndaj meje ishte gjithmon\u00eb e justifikuar, meq\u00eb ishte i moshuar dhe i s\u00ebmur\u00eb. Nuk kisha \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>- Po burri ? Edhe ai ju godiste? <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>- Po. Gjithmon\u00eb. M\u00eb godiste p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. Ndaj, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, ndalova s\u00eb foluri. Nuk doja m\u00eb sherre. Nuk doja m\u00eb probleme. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Sipas Anket\u00ebs Komb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Popullsis\u00eb \u201cDhuna ndaj grave dhe vajzave n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri\u201d<sup>1<\/sup>, kryer nga INSTAT (Instituti zyrtar i Statistikave n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri), n\u00eb 2018, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjysma e grave dhe vajzave shqiptare t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs 15-74 vje\u00e7 kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar dhun\u00eb gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, 47% e tyre kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar dhun\u00eb n\u00eb familje nga partneri intim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">N\u00eb vitin 2006, parlamenti shqiptar ratifikoi ligjin p\u00ebr \u201cMasat kund\u00ebr dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet familjare\u201d<sup>2<\/sup> p\u00ebr ta ulur at\u00eb n\u00eb gjirin e familjes, ndaj grave. Ligji e p\u00ebrkufizon qart\u00eb dhun\u00ebn n\u00eb familje si \u00e7do akt tjet\u00ebr dhune fizike, morale, psikologjike, seksuale, sociale dhe ekonomike t\u00eb kryer nd\u00ebrmjet personave q\u00eb jan\u00eb ose kan\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie familjare. Kodi i Republik\u00ebs s\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb<sup>3<\/sup> u rishikua p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb dhun\u00ebn n\u00eb familje si vep\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebnueshme me burgim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditeshme, gjendja ende ndryshon duksh\u00ebm nga teoria, pasi grat\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb dhun\u00eb n\u00eb familje zakonisht nuk e raportojn\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb institucionet p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse ligjore. Shkaku kryesor i n\u00ebn-raportimit gjendet tek normat shoq\u00ebrore. Sipas anket\u00ebs s\u00eb sip\u00ebrp\u00ebrmendur t\u00eb INSTAT<sup>1<\/sup>, 46.5% e grave t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs 18-74 vje\u00e7 deklaruan se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ose shumica e an\u00ebtar\u00ebve t\u00eb komunitetit t\u00eb tyre \"mendojn\u00eb se nj\u00eb grua duhet t\u00eb toleroj\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb dhune, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur familjen e saj t\u00eb bashkuar\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&nbsp;<\/em><em>\"Nuk kam shkuar kurr\u00eb n\u00eb polici, pasi kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb norm\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Ka qen\u00eb thuajse gjithmon\u00eb k\u00ebshtu. Gjithsesi vjehrra nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb kishte lejuar\"<\/em>,- thot\u00eb Dorina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-racontant-son-experience-Photo-credit-Anastasia-Papadopoulos.jpg\" alt=\"Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-racontant-son-experience-Photo-credit-Anastasia-Papadopoulos\" class=\"wp-image-1323\" width=\"139\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-racontant-son-experience-Photo-credit-Anastasia-Papadopoulos.jpg 200w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-racontant-son-experience-Photo-credit-Anastasia-Papadopoulos-10x12.jpg 10w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 139px) 100vw, 139px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Dorina racontant son experience <br>Photo credit Anastasia Papadopoulos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>8 vite braktisje dhe m\u00eb pas Franca<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pas telasheve me autoritetet dhe p\u00ebrplasjeve me partner\u00ebt e tij n\u00eb nj\u00eb biznes t\u00eb dyshimt\u00eb,  bashk\u00ebshorti i Dorin\u00ebs largohet nga familja n\u00eb vitin 2010, duke mos l\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00eb gjurm\u00eb pas. Ajo ka kalua vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra duke luftuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, vet\u00ebm, duke u kujdesur edhe p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e tij. Gruaja e re punonte 12 or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, si rrobaqep\u00ebse, si dhe mbante sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e kujdesej f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vjehrrin e saj t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb, p\u00ebr 8 vite t\u00eb gjata, pavar\u00ebsisht abuzimeve psikologjike, ekonomike dhe fizike nga vjeh\u00ebrrit. Nga t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk d\u00ebgjoi kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb falenderim, nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb mbijetoj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje shfryt\u00ebzuese dhe abuzive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, Dorina vendosi se kishte duruar mjaftuesh\u00ebm. Nuk mund t\u00eb vazhdonte t\u00eb b\u00ebnt\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb. Kuptoi, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, q\u00eb ishte vet\u00ebm dhe se nuk kishte njeri q\u00eb mund ta ndihmonte. \"Vendosa t\u00eb largohem nga vendi im p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur kushte m\u00eb t\u00eb mira jete p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. P\u00ebr mua, gjithashtu.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ajo erdhi n\u00eb Franc\u00eb me, n\u00eb mendje, nj\u00eb imazh mikprit\u00ebs t\u00eb k\u00ebtij vendi. Duke shpresuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fillim t\u00eb ri - p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re. T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, t\u00eb qet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sigurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">\"Nuk mund t\u00eb qendroja m\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Nuk mund ta b\u00ebja m\u00eb. Nuk erdha p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar nga Franca. Nuk dua bamir\u00ebsi. Erdha t\u00eb punoj, t\u00eb rris f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi, me pun\u00ebn time.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb, ajo q\u00eb gjeti n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, ishte shum\u00eb e ndryshme nga ajo q\u00eb shpresonte. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb mikpritjes, mund\u00ebsive t\u00eb pun\u00ebs, pranimit dhe mund\u00ebsive p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjedhur, 4 vite t\u00eb gjata pritjeje t\u00eb pafuqishme dhe nj\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb pasigurt financiare, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb dokumenteve.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">\"Kur mb\u00ebrrit\u00ebm, na u desh t\u00eb flinim n\u00eb baraka. P\u00ebr dy muaj. Pastaj p\u00ebrs\u00ebri p\u00ebr gjasht\u00eb muaj t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Secili prej nesh nuk kishte m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb karrige t\u00eb gjat\u00eb plazhi dhe nj\u00eb batanije. Ishim gati 30 vet\u00eb q\u00eb jetonim n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn dhom\u00eb,\" Dorina kujton vuajtjet e muajve t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb Franc\u00eb me dhimbje dhe nj\u00eb z\u00eb t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjyer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pasi 8 muajsh n\u00eb baraka, familjes iu dha nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb rezerv\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr strehimi p\u00ebr azilk\u00ebrkuesit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Dorina aplikoi p\u00ebr mbrojtje pran\u00eb Zyr\u00ebs Franceze p\u00ebr Mbrojtjen e Refugjat\u00ebve dhe Personave Pa Shtet\u00ebsi (OFPRA), duke p\u00ebrfituar ndihm\u00eb ligjore dhe nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkthyes. \u201c\u00c7dokush ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb g\u00ebzoj\u00eb azil n\u00eb vende t\u00eb tjera, p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbrojtur nga persekutimet\u201d, thot\u00eb neni 14 i Deklarat\u00ebs Universale t\u00eb t\u00eb Drejtave t\u00eb Njeriut t\u00eb vitit 1948<sup>4<\/sup>. Statusi i refugjatit dhe\/ose i mbrojtjes plot\u00ebsuese njihet nga OFPRA bazuar n\u00eb Konvent\u00ebn e Gjenev\u00ebs t\u00eb vitit 1951<sup>5<\/sup>. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb praktik\u00eb, shumica e emigrant\u00ebve shqiptar\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb azil pasi Shqip\u00ebria konsiderohet nj\u00eb vend i sigurt<sup>6<\/sup>. Emigrant\u00ebt shqiptar\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb aplikojn\u00eb p\u00ebr mbrojtje plot\u00ebsuese, e cila \u201cu jepet personave q\u00eb kan\u00eb arsye t\u00eb r\u00ebnda dhe t\u00eb provuara p\u00ebr t\u00eb dyshuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rrezik real p\u00ebr t'u ekspozuar ndaj d\u00ebmtimeve t\u00eb r\u00ebnda\u201d<sup>7<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">Dorina aplikoi p\u00ebr mbrojtje plot\u00ebsuese. K\u00ebrkesa iu refuzua n\u00eb vitin 2019 me arsyetimin e provave t\u00eb pamjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar ngacmimet dhe k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimet, duke mos justifikuar k\u00ebshtu nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mbrojtje. Mund\u00ebsia e vetme e mbetur p\u00ebr t\u2019u pajisur me dokumente q\u00eb lejojn\u00eb banimin dhe pun\u00ebn n\u00eb Franc\u00eb mbetet qarkorja Valls e dat\u00ebs 28 n\u00ebntor 2012<sup>8<\/sup>. Brenda saj, dy mund\u00ebsi ekzistojn\u00eb p\u00ebr Dorin\u00ebn: ligj\u00ebsimi p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb jet\u00ebs familjare, q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon 5 vjet q\u00ebndrim n\u00eb Franc\u00eb dhe t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 3 vjet ndjekje t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Ose ligj\u00ebsimi p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb pun\u00ebsimit, q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon 3-5 vjet q\u00ebndrim n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, dhe nj\u00eb kontrat\u00eb pune ose premtim pune, si dhe nj\u00eb num\u00ebr specifik pagesash nga pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebse n\u00eb vitet pararend\u00ebse. Megjithat\u00eb, qarkorja Valls nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb detyruese p\u00ebr autoritetet. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se edhe n\u00ebse plot\u00ebsohen kushtet e p\u00ebrcaktuara n\u00eb qarkore, ligj\u00ebsimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i sigurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ndryshe nga perceptimi negativ p\u00ebr emigrant\u00ebt, q\u00eb ndeshet r\u00ebndom n\u00eb Franc\u00eb, Dorina ka d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e madhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar. Kur jetonte n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, n\u00eb vendin e saj t\u00eb origjin\u00ebs, punonte si rrobaqep\u00ebse p\u00ebr franshiza t\u00eb markave t\u00eb njohura si Lacoste, Max Mara etj. D\u00ebshira e saj e madhe \u00ebsht\u00eb ta vazhdoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb profesion n\u00eb Franc\u00eb. Esht\u00eb e apasionuar pas rrobaqep\u00ebsis\u00eb. Por Dorina nuk e ka luksin e t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuarit pun\u00eb vet\u00ebm si rrobaqep\u00ebse: ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb gati t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb cdo pun\u00eb t\u00eb ndershme. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, k\u00ebrkimi i nj\u00eb pune, cfar\u00ebdolloji qoft\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb  pjes\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e aktiviteteve t\u00eb saj t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. Mund\u00ebsia e vetme, meq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pa dokumente, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb punoj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb zez\u00eb. Por, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, rreziku i d\u00ebnimeve ligjore ndaj pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsve, e b\u00ebn shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb gjetjen e nj\u00eb pune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\"\u00cbsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb rreth vicioz. Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb punoja, por nuk m\u00eb lejojn\u00eb. Sepse m\u00eb duhen dokumentet. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, nuk mund t\u00eb pajisem me dokumente sepse nuk kam kontrat\u00eb pune.<\/em> \u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Familja me tre an\u00ebtar\u00eb, pa t\u00eb ardhura, merr ndihm\u00eb nga shoqatat, dhe, kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme, edhe nj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje financiare nga familja e tyre n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Dorina e kalon dit\u00ebn duke u kujdesur p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj dhe p\u00ebr apartamentin, duke k\u00ebrkuar pun\u00eb dhe duke shkuar n\u00eb qendr\u00ebn e Secours Catholique n\u00eb Nancy. Aty ndjek m\u00ebsimet e fr\u00ebngjishtes, shoq\u00ebrohet me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb integrohet. Megjithat\u00eb, rrethanat e v\u00ebshtira dhe pamund\u00ebsia e saj p\u00ebr t'u siguruar f\u00ebmij\u00ebve saj jet\u00ebn q\u00eb meritojn\u00eb, i shkaktojn\u00eb stres dhe pik\u00ebllim t\u00eb madh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">\"Nuk di se si t\u00eb vazhdoj. Por duhet t\u00eb l\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb ndjenjat e mia, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrohem  t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi sepse ata jan\u00eb prioriteti\", thot\u00eb ajo me dhimbje por edhe me nj\u00eb forc\u00eb t\u00eb pal\u00ebkundur, q\u00eb i lexohet n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>44-vje\u00e7arja, e cila ka vuajtur shum\u00eb n\u00eb vendin e origjin\u00ebs, e mbetur vet\u00ebm me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, pa dokumente prej 4 vitesh, nuk dor\u00ebzohet, me gjith\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb. \u00c7edo dit\u00eb, ajo p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb siguroj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb mundshme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb. Esht\u00eb gati t\u00eb jap\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>-A jeni penduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb keni ardhur n\u00eb Franc\u00eb?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\" translation-block\">-T\u00eb pendohem? Jo, kurr\u00eb. - pergjigjet pa u menduar. -Jeta k\u00ebtu n\u00eb Franc\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb sfiduese, por edhe m\u00eb e qet\u00eb. T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn mund t'i rris f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi si t\u00eb dua, nuk jam vazhdimisht n\u00eb frik\u00eb. E vler\u00ebsoj k\u00ebt\u00eb vend. \"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a><strong>*Emri \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur identitetin e personit. <\/strong><\/a><strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><strong>Burimet:<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>[1]<\/sup> INSAT, <em>Violence against women and girls in Albania<\/em>, 2018, p. 12-16 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.instat.gov.al\/media\/6123\/publication-violence-against-women.pdf\">http:\/\/www.instat.gov.al\/media\/6123\/publication-violence-against-women.pdf<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>2 <\/sup>loi n\u00b0 9669 du 18 d\u00e9cembre 2006<em>&nbsp; \u00ab Sur les mesures contre la violence dans les relations familiales \u00bb <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ilo.org\/dyn\/natlex\/natlex4.detail?p_isn=75471&amp;p_lang=\">https:\/\/www.ilo.org\/dyn\/natlex\/natlex4.detail?p_isn=75471&amp;p_lang=<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>3<\/sup> Code p\u00e9nal de la R\u00e9publique d&#8217;Albanie, Article 130, 2015 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.warnathgroup.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Albania_CC_1995_am2015_en.pdf\">https:\/\/www.warnathgroup.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Albania_CC_1995_am2015_en.pdf<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>4 <\/sup>Article 14 du D\u00e9claration universelle des droits de l&#8217;homme de 1948&nbsp; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ohchr.org\/sites\/default\/files\/UDHR\/Documents\/UDHR_Translations\/frn.pdf\">https:\/\/www.ohchr.org\/sites\/default\/files\/UDHR\/Documents\/UDHR_Translations\/frn.pdf<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>5<\/sup> Article 1 de la Convention de Gen\u00e8ve de 1951<a href=\"https:\/\/www.unhcr.org\/fr\/4b14f4a62\">https:\/\/www.unhcr.org\/fr\/4b14f4a62<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>6<\/sup> L\u2019OFPRA, <em>Liste de pays d\u2019origine surs, <\/em>date de mise en jour : 01\/09\/2021 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ofpra.gouv.fr\/fr\/textes-documents\/liste-des-pays-d-origine-surs\">https:\/\/www.ofpra.gouv.fr\/fr\/textes-documents\/liste-des-pays-d-origine-surs<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>7 <\/sup>D\u00e9finis par l&#8217;article L. 512-1 du Ceseda, <em>entr\u00e9 en vigueur le 1er mai 2021 <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.legifrance.gouv.fr\/codes\/article_lc\/LEGIARTI000042776169\">https:\/\/www.legifrance.gouv.fr\/codes\/article_lc\/LEGIARTI000042776169<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>8<\/sup> Ministere de l\u2019Int\u00e9rieur, <em>Circulaire INTK1229185C <\/em>du 28 novembre 2012 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.justice.gouv.fr\/publication\/mna\/circ_conditions_demandes_admission_sejour_2012.pdf\">http:\/\/www.justice.gouv.fr\/publication\/mna\/circ_conditions_demandes_admission_sejour_2012.pdf<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-e6b26254 uagb-blockquote__skin-border uagb-blockquote__with-tweet uagb-blockquote__tweet-style-classic uagb-blockquote__tweet-icon_text uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content translation-block\">Ky artikull \u00ebsht\u00eb prodhuar si pjes\u00eb e projektit \u201cT\u00eb vijm\u00eb s\u00eb bashku, t\u00eb rr\u00ebfehemi, t\u00eb mobilizohemi\u201d, nj\u00eb partneritet midis platform\u00ebs s\u00eb informacionit PRO IDE dhe Secours Catholique Caritas Hauts de Lorraine, me mb\u00ebshtetjen financiare t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj t\u00eb fundit.\nAi u shkrua nga Dora Pozsgai, studente n\u00eb universitetin e Shkencave Politike n\u00eb Paris, kampusi i Nancy-t, vullnetare (2022) me Secours Catholique Caritas Hauts de Lorraine, dhe u redaktua nga Elda Spaho Bleta, gazetare, themeluese e PRO IDE. Burimet e informacionit citohen dhe kur jepet nj\u00eb mendim vetjak, ai angazhon vet\u00ebm autoren.\nP\u00ebrmbajtja e artikujve nuk p\u00ebrfshin strukturat e p\u00ebrmendura m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><a href=\"\/al\/\" class=\"uagb-blockquote__tweet-button\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><svg width=\"20\" height=\"20\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M459.37 151.716c.325 4.548.325 9.097.325 13.645 0 138.72-105.583 298.558-298.558 298.558-59.452 0-114.68-17.219-161.137-47.106 8.447.974 16.568 1.299 25.34 1.299 49.055 0 94.213-16.568 130.274-44.832-46.132-.975-84.792-31.188-98.112-72.772 6.498.974 12.995 1.624 19.818 1.624 9.421 0 18.843-1.3 27.614-3.573-48.081-9.747-84.143-51.98-84.143-102.985v-1.299c13.969 7.797 30.214 12.67 47.431 13.319-28.264-18.843-46.781-51.005-46.781-87.391 0-19.492 5.197-37.36 14.294-52.954 51.655 63.675 129.3 105.258 216.365 109.807-1.624-7.797-2.599-15.918-2.599-24.04 0-57.828 46.782-104.934 104.934-104.934 30.213 0 57.502 12.67 76.67 33.137 23.715-4.548 46.456-13.32 66.599-25.34-7.798 24.366-24.366 44.833-46.132 57.827 21.117-2.273 41.584-8.122 60.426-16.243-14.292 20.791-32.161 39.308-52.628 54.253z\"><\/path><\/svg>Tweet<\/a><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"155\" src=\"https:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Logo-sponsor-Pro-Ide-Secour-Catholic-copy-1024x155.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1400\" srcset=\"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Logo-sponsor-Pro-Ide-Secour-Catholic-copy-1024x155.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Logo-sponsor-Pro-Ide-Secour-Catholic-copy-300x45.jpg 300w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Logo-sponsor-Pro-Ide-Secour-Catholic-copy-768x116.jpg 768w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Logo-sponsor-Pro-Ide-Secour-Catholic-copy-18x3.jpg 18w, http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Logo-sponsor-Pro-Ide-Secour-Catholic-copy.jpg 1055w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p class=\" translation-block\">Dorina kaloi 8 vite n\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, pa t\u00eb shoqin, duke jetuar me prind\u00ebrit e tij. Ajo punonte 12 or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa kujdesej edhe p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e p\u00ebr vjehrrin e s\u00ebmur\u00eb. E gjitha kjo pa nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb falenderimi, n\u00ebn dhun\u00eb  psikologjike, ekonomike dhe fizike. Nj\u00eb histori njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1379,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,38],"tags":[],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-pensante-ok-1.jpg",645,300,false],"thumbnail":["http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-pensante-ok-1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-pensante-ok-1-300x140.jpg",300,140,true],"medium_large":["http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-pensante-ok-1.jpg",645,300,false],"large":["http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-pensante-ok-1.jpg",645,300,false],"1536x1536":["http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-pensante-ok-1.jpg",645,300,false],"2048x2048":["http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-pensante-ok-1.jpg",645,300,false],"trp-custom-language-flag":["http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Atelier-journalistique-SCCF-Pro-IDE-Dorina-pensante-ok-1-18x8.jpg",18,8,true]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Dora Pozsgai","author_link":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/author\/dora-pozsgai\/"},"uagb_comment_info":192,"uagb_excerpt":"Dorina\u00a0a pass\u00e9 8 ans \u00e0 essayer d'\u00e9lever ses enfants, sans son mari, en vivant chez ses beaux-parents. Elle a travaill\u00e9 12 heures par jour, tout en faisant le m\u00e9nage et en s'occupant de son beau-p\u00e8re malade. Tout cela au risque de subir des violences psychologiques, \u00e9conomiques et physiques. Une histoire humaine.","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1318"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1318"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1318\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1455,"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1318\/revisions\/1455"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1379"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1318"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1318"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/pro-ide.fr\/al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1318"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}